Madam A - Housewife, Her Home and Her Hobbies

My advice to those who wanted to start a family is to heal first your emotional and psychological trauma of the past.  Those who have experienced verbal and physical abuse from parents, have that deep, unaccepted, hidden trauma that if we do not acknowledge and seek help from the expert, will affect the way we raise our kids. Too much love can kill. It kills true love, it kills trust, it kills free will. Our children are not our dumping ground of our trauma. History will just repeat itself, again and again if do not address our issues with ourselves.  We should heal ourselves first, learn to love ourselves and then that's the time where I believe that we can truly love our children. It's when we are able to give an unconditional love to them.  I pray Lord, that you heal our hearts from the wounds of the past. The offending words, physical pain, distrust, unable to love ourselves...heal us from these so that we can truly and unconditionally share our heart to our love ones...

 Came accross this while reading the bible, and hit me bad. The guilt I felt coz someone was asking me for help but I refuse coz I dont have that much money. I only have little in my wallet.  I guess I should have trusted the Lord and had faith that I have more than enough. I know I have to learn how to be more giving. I know I should learn to trust God more that I have more than enough to share.  Lord God, please take my fear away of giving. Take my fear away of not having enough coz I know that you have blessed us with so much that we can share it with people who needs it most. I know I can be an instrument of your generosity but I have yet to dispose the fear of  not having enough.